Oh playdates, playdates and more playdates. Through the years playdates have taken on many different versions at my house from working full time, working from home as a consultant and now working full time with some flexibility. The caliber and expectations from my first to my fourth kid have changed drastically. When Maddi was younger we had playdates at museums, full on tea parties and always had an agenda with a healthy snack and craft options. I’m serious, an agenda with full blown themes. Fast …