We need to start this off with your mind in the same space as mine, so if you didn’t instantly hear Usher, Confessions Part II, in your mind when you read my title, please click on the link to get that sweet voice singing in your ears so we can be on the same page here. Although, to be clear this isn’t some sort of illegitimate child/baby daddy pop up out of the blue situation. The perk of being a woman, anything that comes out …

